Do you remember the days when you would have to leave your house to go to work? Your pup was accustomed to spending 6+ hours alone, but since we've been in lock down, our dogs now expect to have their favorite human around all the time! And although that has been tremendous for snuggling, it has created some new issues.
As the world has started to open up again and people resume their lives that means that they are spending more time away from home again. Unfortunately, this is leading to a rise in separation anxiety in our pets. If your dog is showing signs of stress, here are some useful tips to help reduce as much stress as possible:
1) Ease Your Dog Into More Alone Time
Even if you are still home the majority of the day, go ahead and start introducing some alone time. Even if it is for short periods, time apart will help your dog to transition more smoothly when you are gone for longer periods of time in the future. Here are a few easy examples:
- Close the door once you ar exploitation the lavatory
- Take out the trash or go outside alone for temporary times
- If you're working from home, keep your dog out of the area an hour or two each day
The earlier you re-introduce alone time to your dog, the better! If they learn from a young age that they don't need to worry when they are left alone, they're less likely to develop separation anxiety as an older dog!
2) Do Not Give In When Your Dog is Whining or Crying When You Are Practicing Alone Time
While it may break your heart a bit, when you are practicing leaving your dog alone for short periods of time, do not re-enter the room, or let them into your space if they are whining or barking. It could reinforce their behavior if you give them exactly what they want (to be with you at all times!). Instead, wait until they have calmed down for a period, and then praise them with a calm tone of voice, and some gentle pets.
3) Exercise Before You Leave
If you know you are going to be gone for longer periods of time, before you go, try to get in a longer walk, or throw the ball around to burn some extra energy. If they are worn out, they are more likely to take a good long nap afterwards. It is helpful to provide a calm, safe space for them to snooze when you are gone. Try setting up a room with a dog bed and their favorite blankets and toys.
While they still might be dreaming about their best bud, they won't be awake and actively missing you.
4) Do Not Make a Big Deal Out of Leaving or Returning Home
When you leave, do not make a big show of it. If you make a big deal about your departure, if may be more likely your dog will become anxious about being left behind.
A big happy greeting is always wonderful when you return, but try to greet them calmly to avoid overreactions. Once they have calmed down, then you can shower them with love. Waiting until they have calmed down helps to reduce the emotion of you leaving and returning. Over time, hopefully they will become more and more comfortable that you will be back before they know it.
5) Distract Your Dog with a Toy or Treats Before You Go!
If you give your dog something like a food puzzle, a long lasting chew, or a toy they love to play with before you go, it will provide a distraction, and help to
keep them mentally stimulated and occupied while you are gone. Plus...if they are busy chewing on something you want them to chew on, they are less likely to chew on furniture or your favorite pair of shoes!
Also, by providing a positive experience, and giving them something they enjoy when you leave, it helps to teach them that your leaving isn't something to dread.
Note: Make sure to only give out treats when you are leaving, not when you are arriving home. If you provide treats when you get home, it will only make your dog more eager and anxious for you to get home.
6) Try Out the DogTimez Snuggle Puppy
The Snuggle Puppy has been designed to provide comfort to help relieve anxiety in your four-legged best friend. It will help your pup with the following:
- Nervousness when moving to a new home
- Whining and barking when crate training
- Distress from fireworks and thunderstorms
- Separation anxiety when your pet needs to be left alone
- Any time your pet needs a little help relaxing